Your girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, life partner, whoever it may be, just left you. Now what? Well, that all will depend on what YOU want to have happen next.
If you are fine with being separated and choose to experience the single life, do whatever you wish, I can't help you. On the contrary, if you want your ex back, I'm glad to say that I can help you get your ex back, but it is absolutely vital that you adhere to some straight forward steps.
Step 1 - Accept that the break was the correct decision. You might be thinking to yourself "is this guy mad? I don't want them to think that. I want them to think that I want them back". That's one of the most typical errors men and women make when they try to get their ex back.
By acknowledging to your ex that you agree with the break does two things: first, you and your ex are in agreement on something, which is very likely something that you haven't done in a while, and it'll probably feel genuinely good for both of you, and second, it immediately lessens a sizable amount of the tenseness that is being experienced by both of you.
Now that you've laid the footing, it's time to implement step 2.
Step 2 - In reality, this is more something that you don't do than what you should do. DO NOT get in touch with your ex about anything! Cut off all communication and allow her the space that she wants. This will provide her ample opportunity to miss you again. When she starts to miss you, she will begin to think increasingly about you.
Basic human psychology indicates that we want something more and more, the more and more we cannot have it. The more that you distance yourself from her, the more that she is going to want you back.
Remember when you were dating in high school. Which was more amusing, the chase or the catch? The chase is always the fun part, because you're going after something that you don't have yet, which makes you desire it even more.
Step 3 - Plan the get together
After you have finished the two steps discussed above, you can begin working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and furthermore what should be said when you do meet up again. This will enable you to get a much better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any possibility that you and your ex will be able to get back together.
"How do I get my ex back?" can be somewhat more tricky than the 3 steps above. Nevertheless, they are a great beginning and will increase your likelihood of winning your ex back.
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